what exactly makes a woman a cougar?
or a jaguar?
or any other feline for that matter?
and whose fault is it anyway, if fault can be applied?
men my age make comments about young guys trying to talk to me, but i don't see too many of you stepping to the plate and trying to get my attention. not in person anyway. now, you might muster up the courage to hit me up on FB or Twitter and maybe a question or two on my formspring, but that's about the extent of your efforts. so, how can you fix your mouth to say anything about my acceptance and even encouragement of the open affection and attention that these younger guys give me? and how does that make me a "cougar" or "jaguar"??
why doesn't it make me human?
simply attracted to those who give me the attention that i'm worth. because it's not like i'm looking for them to be young. i'm not perusing college campuses on the prowl for my next young conquest.. lol. i'm tending to my life. taking care of my girls, working my job, and performing.. and somehow, they seem to find me. they come calling. and that seems to get me defined or placed into some category.
how come i can't get credit for being nondescriminatory? lol. nonprejudicial.. open to new possibilities. all of those things would make women in this position seen in a more positive light, and that would just be unacceptable now wouldn't it? then you men would have nothing to complain about.. hell, you may even have to compliment,or admire us and that just isn't quite acceptable!
you can give each other props when you see a man with grey hair, wrinkled skin, and a young thing on his arm with big tits... but God forbid an attractive older female have a viral young man, (a "hung" thing) who can outlast you in the bed, on her arm. that somehow makes her a predator.lol something to be talked about and a category to be placed in... well, that's bullshit.
instead of watching in bewilderment or slight discontent at the "game" or "swagger" of the youngster you see talking to me, take a few notes, remember the days of your youth when you pursued freely that which you wanted, and don't hit me up on FB or Twitter. Call me. Walk up and speak the next time you see me. And if i like what i see or more importantly, what comes out of your mouth, i promise to give you the same opportunity they get from me.. no matter what age you are. Deal?
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ReplyDeletePeople make fun of the unknown. They are intimidated by the unknown. In an attempt to hide their own insecurities they make up names to call people. Punk tails!!
ReplyDeleteDani, I feel you While I'm just starting the ride of my thirties I'm finding the younger brothers are more interested in the more experienced female. I can't blame them however the term cougar seems a little like someone who is in search of and wants to pounce on some prey. They cant be prey if there chasin you so should we be calling younger guys Cubs lol
ReplyDeleteAmen Exotic. If they are the ones looking for me.. they should obtain the name, not me. lol
ReplyDeletewow..okay..you are soooo not a cougar!lol...men who say this are the ones who dont have the guts to approach you...so they gotta find something to say to justify there inabilty to approach a strong woman like yourself...and these "younger" guys dont have time to write notes that say do you like me, check yes or no..lol..they are comin correct!
ReplyDeletemmmmmmm!!!!!! dani you know my story with cougars, its just older men have to many strongholds in there life that they forget the efatuation stage of relationships, the flirting, the innoccent booty grabbing, the making out in the park, the youthful things im not saying all men but most older men loose so they get mad when yall look for those things in younger men.
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